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Hermitess21C

Joined: Jan. 10, 2012

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I am the eldest of seven children, a daughter/sister/aunt/great-aunt/niece; committed prayer-partner, retiree who’s worked as a certified hospital chaplain.  I am Roman/Latin Catholic. I’m a Republican by registration; a ‘theocon/values voter’ by self-definition. The so-called “life issues” are of foundational importance to me. I read voraciously, cross-stitch periodically.


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Re: The JP II generation

Apr. 10 at 10:03pm | see this comment in context

[This comment was posted at the original blog, to the blogger, thought it might add to the discussion]...

As one who straddles PJ23 and PJPII (aged 55), I thank you for this post, J! When I needed belonging/affirmation/acceptance as a teen/young adult with a disability, butterflies, warm fuzzies and "Here I Am, Lord" (See Isaiah 6:8ff) gave me the strength to move forward in faith to degrees in Psychology and Theology and very fulfilling work as a hospital chaplain. I don't see this as 'either/or', but 'both/and'.

Re: On the Unbearable Lightness of Sex on TV

Feb. 25 at 1:52pm | see this comment in context

Dr. Healy, I've been following "Person Of Interest" since it began: absorbing; with a plot and references to complex (for Hollywood) moral questions...That said, I'm investing in episodes of "Ironside", "Quincy", "Longstreet" and, of course, "Cadfael".  The TV is, more than not, a monitor at my house.

Re: “Forgiving Oneself”—What Might It Mean?

Feb. 22 at 4:07pm | see this comment in context

Thank you, Jules! (I think...)  Teresa, I agree completely!

 

Re: “Forgiving Oneself”—What Might It Mean?

Feb. 22 at 12:08am | see this comment in context

Teresa: Thank you for your kind words - and your very perceptive thoughts re: resistance to the reality of one's "creatureliness" to a certain extent, one's imperfection;a most necessary but often absent balance between acceptance and acquisence.

Gregory:  Thank you for enlarging on the context of your post!  Pride, in its many guises, bewitches us and robs us of the strength that is at its best in weakness.

Katie: I couldn't agree more that the "forgiveness issues" approach is pernicious; it smacks of a sort of blanket amnesty wherein *everything* is forgiven and *nothing* is forgiven simultaneously.  I got a bellyful of 'non-judgmental' Carl Rogers technique in my 1970s undergrad psych degree...Such 'acceptance', it still seems to me, violates the subjectivity and uniqueness of he person while it denies him/her the dignity of taking responsibility for his/her own actions - to the fullest extent possible.

(I'll be *here* during Lent, while 'abstaining' from several other favorite spots on the 'Net...Thanks for the refreshment and spiritual/mental exercise to all!) 

Re: “Forgiving Oneself”—What Might It Mean?

Feb. 19 at 8:42pm | see this comment in context

Katie: this was *indeed* written from "a psychological point of view" - that of my 12-year-old self enduring 2 years of ill-conceived surgical interventions performed by a surgeon who said to my mother (in my presence) "If you do this, I'll have her walking within a year." Since I'm now 54 and use a power wheelchair for mobility, that didn't happen. ("Man proposes, God disposes", I know.)  But the wound of my perceived "abandonment" by God needed tending by my growing understanding that God had not done any such thing; thus, I needed to relinquish the adolescent sense of being forsaken: to "forgive" God...In my prior chaplaincy work with persons who were newly physically disabled, this was often a very important step.  Gregory: I agree wholeheartedly!  I suppose I approached the question from an undoubtably personal perspective. 

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